Sunday, December 30, 2007

Wedding Spam Coming Your Way

Hey Everybody! Some very exciting updates will be coming to our website within the next week or so we start to make more announcements to our wedding events. Our electronic "Save the Date"/RSVP forms will be online soon, as well as our emailing list for sending out email notifications.

For those of you who are tech savvy, subscribe to our news feed for automatic updates.

Other thing that we'll be sending email out for is receiving snail mail addresses for sending invitations... after much flip flopping, I think we have decided on an invitation.

With 8 months to go, I think our planning is coming together quite well. Too bad our payechecks don't come this quickly.

Saturday, December 29, 2007

As Long as We're Wedding Planning

... I'm not on vacation. Turns out that wedding planning is a lot of work. Denise and I have been off work for the past week for Christmas celebrations, hanging out with friends, and most importantly, wedding planning.

While there were no suprises on our planning meetings with decorators, I didn't really expect it to be so exhausting. I'm so glad that by next Wednesday, I'll be able to relax again (back at work, doing 'easy stuff').

The Quest for the Perfect Decorator

One of the major aspects that we still have to determine is a decorator for our wedding reception. At a minimum, we need a backdrop, head table decoration, and chair covers. So, before I left Ottawa for the Christmas holidays, I emailed a bunch of decorators with a preliminary inquiry. About half of them replied and I scheduled appointments with them during my stay here in Toronto.

For our first appointment, Colin and I went to the decorator's Mississauga "showroom". I put the word, showroom, in quotes because the place was more like a small workshop that was quite unorganized, untidy and dusty. The person we spoke to was nice. She showed us a photo album, which displayed a portfolio of the company's work. She also explained the extent of her experience with our reception venue. She provided us with a detailed quote that seemed reasonable.

Our second appointment was with a company based in Woodbridge. Although the guy we met was nice, we didn't have a very good vibe. The guy gave us a bunch of albums containing samples of the company's previous jobs. Rather than telling us more about the company, he left us alone for the most part while he did his banking on-line. And after discussing what our decorating needs were, he did his own calculations and gave us a number. This number was much higher than the previous quote. However, what bothered us the most was that when we left the meeting, we did not really have a good idea what kind of job this guy would do for us.

Our third appointment was with a Polish woman in Mississauga. As with the other places, she showed us albums of her previous work. Immediately, I could tell that she was a creative person and passionate about the work she did. What I liked about her was that she provided us with a detailed quote immediately and told us that she would reserve our date for two weeks. I thought that was nice of her.

With our last appointment, the decorator insisted on having the meeting at our reception site. She wanted to do a preliminary assessment of the ballrooom to see if she could meet our decorating needs. After looking at the ballroom, we found a quiet space where she presented us her portfolio and explained the depth of her experience. She demonstrated the most professionalism out of all the other decorators we talked to. As well, she provided me with the most thorough and detailed quote.

Colin and I are still mulling over our choices. The one good thing about meeting these decorators was we now have a better idea about what we want in terms of wedding decorations.

Thursday, December 27, 2007

The Gift Registry

Today, Colin and I completed our gift registry at the Bay and Home Outfitters. We had started it in November, which seemed a bit early to even think about it. However, we were persuaded by the various incentives being offered including a $25 gift card at each store and a free collander from the Gordan Ramsay collection just for putting the Gordon Ramsay cookware set on our registry. (We are still waiting for the free collander by the way).

When we went into the stores, we learned about other advantages to registering at the Bay and HomeOutfitters. For example, people can order off of our registry directly on-line and have the gift sent to our home store. Given that our home stores are in Ottawa, this would make it easier for us to transport our gifts home. Another advantage is the completion program. Basically, we have about a year to purchase outstanding items on our registry at discounted price. For example, we can buy the three plates that were not given to us as gifts to complete our dinnerware set.

Anyway, if you are thinking about getting us a wedding gift from our registry, you might want to check out the Bay and Home Outfitters now. Both stores are offering boxing day prices and having a white sale.

Saturday, December 8, 2007

Dress Saga Over (Well, Sort Of...)

It's finally over. I have chosen my wedding dress. I went back to the store with my mom and Colin's mom. (I wanted Colin's mom to check out the dress and examine the extent of the alterations...to see if it was possible for her to do it). The dress felt really nice on and I'm quite happy with my choice. When we went to the store today, I only had the intention of getting the dress but my mother strongly insisted that we buy the veil as well. Even though I thought the veil was ridculously expensive and could easily be a "do-it-yourself" project for a fraction of the price, I couldn't really say "no" to her, especially when she offered to pay for it. One less thing to worry about, I suppose. Plus, when mom's happy (and not on my case), then I am happy.

After putting the deposit down, we spent the afternoon in Chinatown looking at Chinese wedding dresses. I fear that my dress saga is not completely over. I thought it would be a relatively easy task to find a decent Chinese wedding dress for cheap. However, according to Colin's mom, most of the ones I picked out were not really Chinese wedding dresses. They were just Chinese dresses that happened to be red. And the ones that she told me were more wedding-lilke were ugly in my opinion. Sigh. I'm not going to worry about it right now.

Friday, December 7, 2007

My Own Veil?!?

Below is an excerpt from a conversation with my mother.

Mom: You have a veil, you know...
Me: Yeah, yeah...I guess I will get my own veil.
Mom: No. I mean you already have your own veil.
Me [looking puzzled]: No, I don't. What do you mean I already have my own veil?
[Mom motions me to come upstairs and shows me veil]
Mom: Look! Your own veil from your First Communion!
Me: Oh! That veil. I wore that?!?
Mom: Yeah.
Me: Let me try it on...













Me: Ummm...No! I don't think I'm going to wear this veil...
Mom and Me: Hahahahaha...